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One thing you should know about Harrison Butker is that he kicks a football for a living, which means he spends an awful lot of time on his own.
Solitude, you see, is a way of life for a kicker of footballs.
If you see them standing on the sideline, you’ll notice that there’s usually a lot of empty space between themselves and their teammates, as if the kicker can’t stop farting. You seldom see anyone talking to them because the other guys—the actual football players—are too busy playing the game to chit-chat and, let’s be honest, nobody really gives a damn what a kicker of footballs has to say.
It’s believed that Mike Vanderjagt was the last kicker of footballs south of the Canada-U.S.A. Divide to deliver a sound bite worthy of anyone’s attention, and that was in 2003 after he’d mean-mouthed Indianapolis Colts quarterback Peyton Manning and head coach Tony Dungy. The way the Indy kicker of footballs had it figured, the former was too indifferent and the latter too soft for the Colts to rise to the top of the National Football League heap.
“We’re talking about our idiot kicker who got liquored up and ran his mouth off,” Manning responded when quizzed about Vanderjagt at the 2003 Pro Bowl. “What has the sports world come to when we’re talking about idiot kickers? He has ruined kickers for life.”
That Manning rebuke put NFL kickers of footballs on notice: Be seldom seen, be never heard. Thus they retreated to their life of sideline solitude.
And what do people do when alone?
They think.
Well, okay, I suppose some among us are inclined to get up to no good given too much down time, but I’ve always found it to be conducive to deep contemplation, whereby one might study on anything from another summer of raging forest fires across the continent, or a return to 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. N.W. for the Trump troupe.
Or, if you’re Harrison Butker, you ponder women and gays and gender and abortion and unmarried couples shacking up pre-wedding vows and Latin mass and inclusion.
Oh, yes, we know the Kansas City Chiefs hoofer allows his mind to wander in those directions during his sideline solitude because, in 20 minutes of exercising his jaw bone last weekend at Benedictine College in Kansas, Butker’s commencement speech supported Manning’s notion that kickers of footballs are, indeed, idiots.
I mean, the guy who cleans up after the circus elephants doesn’t deal with this much crap.
Examples:
Diversity, equity and inclusion: That’s “tyranny.”
Gay Pride: That’s a “deadly sin.”
Transgender individuals: That’s “dangerous gender ideologies.”
U.S. President Joe Biden: He’s “delusional” for making the sign of the cross at a pro-abortion rally.
Abortion: That, like being LGBT(etc.), is the product of “pervasiveness of disorder.”
God: A life without God “is not a life at all.”
Butker also popped off about the lousy leadership of Catholic bishops and priests, but he reserved his strongest horse-and-buggy commentary for females, speaking to them directly.
“You, the women, have had the most diabolical lies told to you,” he said.
Diabolical lies? I take that to mean fibs like: You can have a career, ladies. You don’t have to be hubby-doting, baby-making machines. You can ditch the kitchen and take a seat in the boardroom, or anywhere else of your choosing. You can be doctors, lawyers, scholars, scientists, physicists (like Butker’s mother), actors, professional athletes, singers/songwriters, cops, firefighters, circus clowns, etc. And, hey, you can do any of that and have kids if that’s your thing.
But not in Harrison Butker’s world, where the 1950s gets in the way of the 21st century and every woman would hold a Mrs. Degree and be June Cleaver. You know, a dutiful “homemaker” cooking din-din in her pearls and heels, at her hubby’s beck and call 24/7, wiping runny noses and, most of all, churning out children the way McDonald’s cranks out Happy Meals.
“How many of you are sitting here now, about to cross this stage, and are thinking about all the promotions and titles you are going to get in your career?” he told the graduating female students. “Some of you may go on to lead successful careers in the world, but I would venture to guess that the majority of you are most excited about your marriage and the children you will bring into this world.”
This is what you get when a Catholic kicker of footballs with too much time on his hands shares his Catholic thoughts aloud.
Sure he has the freedom to say it, just as I have the freedom to say, as a non-practising Roman Catholic, that Peyton Manning was right about those guys: Idiot kickers.
Although Butker received a standing O once he had given his gums a rest (no surprise since 85 per cent of the student body at Benedictine is Catholic), I’ll tell you who wasn’t on their feet clapping—nuns. His diatribe was met with a frown and a collective harrumph from the Benedictine Sisters of Mount St. Scholastica, and if I learned anything while attending Roman Catholic school during my sprigness, it’s that you don’t mess with the nuns. Well, Butker messed with the nuns. They gave him a figurative whack on the knuckles with a wooden ruler, posting this on Facebook: “The sisters of Mount St. Scholastica do not believe that Harrison Butker’s comments represent the Catholic, Benedictine, liberal arts college that our founders envisioned and in which we have been so invested. Instead of promoting unity in our church, our nation, and the world, his comments seem to have fostered division. One of our concerns was the assertion that being a homemaker is the highest calling for a woman. We sisters have dedicated our lives to God and God’s people, including the many women whom we have taught and influenced during the past 160 years. These women have made a tremendous difference in the world in their roles as wives and mothers and through their God-given gifts in leadership, scholarship, and their careers. We reject a narrow definition of what it means to be Catholic. We want to be known as an inclusive, welcoming community.” So there. Now go stand in the corner, Harrison Butker or, better yet, go to the chalkboard and write this down 150 times: “A woman’s place is where she wants it to be, not where a kicker of footballs wants it to be.”
Tuition at Benedictine College is $35,350 a year, or $141,400 for four years. That’s a heavy price to pay just to learn how to make brekky for the kids and darn your hubby’s socks. But, hey, if a Mrs. Degree is your thing, ladies, darn on!
Just for the record, not all kickers are idiots. Two of the better quotes among Winnipeg Blue Bombers of yore were Troy Westwood and Bob Cameron, a punter not a place-kicker. I recall one day Cameron bemoaning the curse of his “old man eyebrows,” which, he had recently discovered, required regular trimming. Impressed as he tugged at them, I devoted an entire column to Bob’s brows. Meantime, Westwood’s remark about “banjo-picking inbreds” is legendary in Prairie football folklore. Ol’ Lefty would later offer a mea culpa for labeling folks from the Flattest of Lands as banjo pickers, saying, “I was wrong to make such a statement, and I’d like to apologize. The vast majority of the people in Saskatchewan have no idea how to play the banjo.” That’s classic stuff.
I’m not liking this at all: Another week and another former colleague from the rag trade is dead. This time it’s Alan Small, a charming and delightful man and the arts and entertainment guru at the Drab Slab. Al joined us for a brief time at the Winnipeg Sun before moving across the street to the broadsheet in the late 1990s, and we had occasion to share a few pints at the original Toad In The Hole and Carlos & Murphy’s in Osborne Village. I enjoyed spending time with him. He was a tad quirky, and I enjoyed his company because he was so real in his quirkiness. I loved his laugh. I giggled whenever he would rub his hands together in glee after delivering a ripe one-liner or a joke. I liked how he saw the good in people, even though we both worked in an industry that too often is required to focus on the bad in people. I liked that he liked Bob Dylan, which served us well at the Toad since the wee Scottish barman, Des, played his music non-stop. Al’s death is a blow to the folks at the Winnipeg Free Press, and I share their sadness.
Word of Al’s death arrived a week after we lost Brian Smiley, a former colleague at Sun newspapers in Calgary and Good Ol’ Hometown. Both were younger than me and it’s a damn shame that I’m writing about them in the past tense.
I’m not sure what to make of the Toronto Maple Leafs hiring Craig Berube to pull the strings behind the players bench. I mean, yes, the guy’s kind of scary in a bite-the-head-off-a-live-chicken sort of way, and he coached a Stanley Cup champion in St. Louis. But he also has a losing record in the playoffs, with three first-round exits in five tournaments. Which, come to think of it, sounds like a perfect fit for the Leafs.
On the subject of early ousters from the playoffs, the Republic of Toronto Team To Be Named Later bowed out of the Professional Women’s Hockey League post-season in, you guessed it, the first round. My question is this: How will the rabble in The ROT blame it on Mitch Marner?
We know the PWHL won’t disappear like summer wages because Mark and Kimbra Walter have thrown a good chunk of their billions behind it, but should there be concern about playoff head counts? While business was bustling in both Montreal and The ROT, with average audiences of 9,653 and 8,518, respectively, the rabble south of the Canada-U.S.A. Divide hasn’t bought in. Minnesota drew just 3,055 for its two home assignments and the number was 2,781 for Boston’s sole game. Those two outfits will compete for the Walter Cup. Will anyone notice?
It’s generally accepted that this is a special time for professional female sports, but the lads in the toy department at the Drab Slab apparently missed that memo. In the past six editions, there has been the grand total of one article and one brief on the Ponytail Puck playoffs. One article, one brief. In six days. Sad. Completely ignored was the Toronto-Minny Game 5 showdown on Friday night. The final buzzer sounded at 8:26 Winnipeg time. What’s the deadline for the Freep sports pages? Noon?
Having said that, here’s something else I’d like to say about the Drab Slab: On the whole, they put out a bloody good Saturday sheet.
So tell us, Brady Tkachuk, what do you think about the style of hockey at the world championship? “Too bad there’s no fighting,” says the Ottawa Senators captain. Sigh.
Wasn’t that some kind of story at the PGA Championship the other day? I mean, the best golfer in the world, Scottie Scheffler, was arrested, handcuffed, hauled off to jail, fingerprinted, had his mug shot taken while wearing a prison-orange jump suit, and charged with numerous felonies. Geez, the lengths some golfers won’t go to just to get CBS broadcasters to talk about someone other than Tiger Woods.
After his brush with the law in Louisville, Scofflaw Scottie dashed to Valhalla Golf Course to make his tee time, then took just 66 swings in the second round of the PGA Championship. Now that is a crime.
Hey, the ponies will be off and galloping on the west side of Good Ol’ Hometown on Monday night, and it’s nice to know that Darren Dunn and Sharon Gulyas continue to make Assinbioia Downs a happening place. Darren’s the CEO and Sharon is VP out at the Downs, and I still harbor fond memories of my visits there back in the day. They’re fabulous hosts.
A tip of the bonnet to Andrea Backlund, who’s included in the Football Manitoba Hall of Fame class of 2024. That qualifies Andrea as a trailblazer, because she’s the first female player to make the grade. Well done.
I don’t anticipate that I’ll ever be inducted into a sports hall of fame, so I root, root, root for my friends and former colleagues, many of whom have already been honored by various halls. Next in line should be my dear friend Dave Komosky, who ought to be a shoo-in for the Canadian Curling Hall of Fame once he puts away his pen and notepad. Davey’s been cranking out the good stuff on our Pebble People for more than half a century, at four different daily newspapers, and he still isn’t prepared to slap a -30- on his Curling Canada writing/editing gig. But he has to be a first-ballot hall-of-famer once he’s done. Meantime, I also want to see another dear friend, Judy Owen, find her way into the media wing of the Canadian Football Hall of Fame. Judy is among the female pioneers in football coverage.
And, finally, there was a heavyweight championship fist fight in Saudi Arabia on Saturday night, with Oleksandr Usyk getting the better of the Gypsy King, Tyson Fury, on points. I guess that makes Usyk the Alphabet King, because he now holds the WBC, WBA, WBO, IBF and Ring magazine title belts. Just for the record, I don’t have that many belts in my clothes closet.
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